Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Shielding techniques for marriage

However, many times, the only way to realize that life is difficult for our spouse is when you start to complain. So instead of worrying about truth or run to help, we may think that you have a bad attitude. We do not realize the pain and pressure he is going through in the same way we do with our pain and pressure. When we complained, we hope that everyone will understand and sympathize with us.

This does not happen when there is love . You do not have obvious signs of distress the wake of a shock to love. Before the concerns and problems begin to haunt your spouse , love has been put into action. Discern the load begins to accumulate and intervenes to help because love wants you to be sensitive to your spouse.

This is the kind of needs you should look at your wife or your husband. Instead of walking is angry because you do not as you think you should let love you out of self-pity and turn your attention to the needs of your spouse.

They have a life ahead together. To live more happy, it is good to know the opinion of your spouse on issues seemingly simple but certainly do not know the detail, in any case, the mere fact of them to your husband and he will do them for you, you will see how feeds you new ideas. Here are some questions :

    What is your biggest hope or dream?
    What do you enjoy most about your life right now ?
    What do you enjoy least in your life right now ?
    What would be your dream job if you could do something you love and get paid for it?
    What have you always wanted to do but have not given you the opportunity ?
    Who do you feel more "safe" ? Why?
    If you could have lunch with anyone in the world , who would it be and why?
    When was the last time you felt full of joy ?
    If you had to give away a million dollars , who would you give it ?
    What three things do you like me so much ? What three things I do Madden you ? In the past, what have I done to make you feel loved? What has made you feel ignored?
    What three points I can improve ?
    Of the following items , what would make you feel most loved ?

Listen how much I appreciate it.

    What would you like to erase everything that has happened in the past?
    What is the next important decision that you think God wants us as a couple?
    How would you like your life in five years ?
    What words would you like to hear from my mouth more often?

You can not change your spouse . No matter how much you want it , you can not play God and get to your heart to transform it into what you want it to be. However, many couples spend much of their time trying to change your spouse .

It has been said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. But is not what happens when you try to change your partner ? You get most of the frustrations . At some point , you must accept that there is something you can do.

Does not work scold or annoy ? The answer is no, because these methods do not change the heart . Instead, it's time to try to talk to God about your spouse. If your spouse does not have any kind of relationship with God , then it is clear why you have to start praying . Beyond this , start praying exactly what your partner needs . Pray for his heart , for his attitude. "

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